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    什么叫大成若缺?老子说,大成若缺,其用不弊。大盈若冲,其用不穷。就是说,最大完成的东西,完美的东西,要留有一点空缺。非常充盈的东西,要留一点空 档,不要太十全十美,这样就有一种生命的张力,生命的抬力,有一个后劲。看上去大成而带一点缺失,看上去充盈而带有一点空隙,这个作用将永远不弊败,永远 用不完。

    什么叫上善若水呢?老子说,水善利 万物而不争,处众人之所恶,故几于道。俗话说,人往高处走,人往低处流。其实,这个智慧不全面。如果一个人想着我要像水一样往下流的话,我就永远处在最下 面,这是个大智慧。你处在最下面,那么其他人的水就往你那里流。老子讲,水有七种德性,叫“七善”:水善于定位,善于静而深,善于仁和爱,善于言而有信, 善于无为而有为,善于发挥能力,善于行止有时。水,太聪明了,冬天来了我就结成冰,春天来了,我就到处流淌。遇见石头,我翻过去,前面有阻挡我的东西,我 就绕过去。水放到圆的容器里,我是圆的,放到方的容器里,我就是方的。水有七德七善,一个人的心中经常有水的意向,那是一个多么美妙的人生境界!

    黄河,长江,为什么有那么多水?处下。黄河处下,水往黄河里流,长江处下,周围的水都往长江这里流。大海,则是处下之处下。我处在黄河,长江之下,你黄 河,长江的水都往我大海里流。老子说的“上善若水”到底像什么水呢?像黄河水,像长江水,更像大海的水。如果我们站在大海的面前,我们自己就会显得多么渺 小,心中的烦躁就会S:大海的水岛樱そ拥美妙啥弧U猓水雍樱て潜,歧果涡鼗潮,歧果蝡an>

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